projections
They are definately not easy to protect yourself from having… Even harder when someone else projects something at you. You can defend yourself and try to make them understand what you really mean, but can you really reach them? When she uses me to be her patronizing self, what can I do to step out of that role..?
I believe we always see reflexions of our own self.. Especially in writing.. Relating…. Is the only time we really understand eachother when we are on the same frequency? When we are projecting the same things on eachother? Is there a possibility to tear down the curtains of projection and see eachother for what we really are? If it’s possible, would we learn less or more? Would I find a story even worthy of listening to if I couldn’t relate to it? Empathy. Some things we don’t have to experience for ourselves to understand and be compassionate about. Feeling another person’s feelings, chakras wideopen.. Posessing the feeling, and beeing able to relate to it… When do I know that the feeling I’m having is the other person’s feeling or just my own projection…? Intuition can give me the answer.. but there lies the difficulty of finding intuition in the mess of brainghosts in our heads.. fears, longings, hopes, habitudes, projections…
I usually forget this, but when my intuition speaks, then there’s really no question, even if I have emotional blocks, I know.. deep down.. what is true. Ok, so still, it’s difficult, but I can protect myself from projecting, but how do I protect myself from beeing projected on?